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Dearteacherandfellowstudents,Gladtobehereandgiveyoualecture.Ihopethiswillbeunforgettableforyou.Okclassesbegin.(Thefirstpicture)Oktodaywearegoingtotalkaboutsomethingthatyoumaybeashamedof.Firstofall,let’shavealookatseveralpictures.ThisoneshowsaplaceinGerman.Lookattheword“Eros-center”.Maybeyoudon’tknowwhatitis.Butyoumustknowwhat“RedLightDistrict”.Well,perhapssomeofyouknowthelady,especiallytheboys.SheisSoraAoi(苍井空).SheistherepresentativeofmodernJapaneseAVcultureandisquitefamousinAsianarea.Thethirdoneisamoviecalled3DSexandZen(肉蒲团).itwasoninHongKonglastyearandarrestedalotofattentionathomeandabroad.However,itisaforbiddenfilmintheChinesemainland,becauseitdisplaystoomanydetailsaboutsex.Thelastoneissowell-knownthatatleastIsupposeallofyoumusthaveheardofit.Butinmostofcases,whatweseeofitisn’tintact,thatis,ithasbeencutouttosomedegree.Nowmaybeyouhavegotmytopictoday.(Thesixth)Yeah,itissex,averysensitivetopic.AsitiswritteninmyPPT,Iusetheword“forbidden”—aforbiddentopic.Ourtopicispopularbutitisseldomtalkedaboutinpublic.Onthesurface,sometimesitisforbiddenbythegovernment,whileontheinterioritis“forbidden”byourtraditionalideaandmorality.(Theseventh)So,whatisourtraditionalideaandmoralityofsex?(Theeighth)Fist,inancientChina,sexisjustconsideredabasicwayofreproducingandisthoughttobethemostlow-gradehumanbehavior.Sexisonlydiscussedbetweencouplesandanyonewhotalksofitinpublicwillberegardedasanindelicateperson.Evenworse,ifawomandoesso,thatwouldmeanthewomanisfrivolous,andmaybenomanwillmarryher.So,conventionalsexisnotanopentopic.Second,thevalueofchastityforceswomentobeconservative.InancientChina,thosewomenwhofornicatewithotherswillbecruellykilled.Becauseofso,themajorityofwomenarescaredtotalkaboutsexforfearofbeingtakenasavampandcausingfataldisaster.Besides,mostwomenthinkthatthevalueofchastitywillaccruedaybydayiftheykeepitpure.So,theyrefusetotalkaboutsex.Third,traditionalrulesprovidethatwomenandmenshouldkeepthedistance.Wecallit“男女授受不亲”(Itisimproperformenandwomentotoucheachother’shandswhenpassingobjects.).Andancientpeoplethinkthatifawoman’sbodyisseenbyaman,shemustmarryhim,andthemanissupposedtomarryher.Therefore,womenchoosenotbeclosewithmen,whilemenkeepawayfromwomen.Asfortalkingaboutsex,itislessimpossible. (Theninth)Traditionalideashavestrongeffectonouroutlooksonsex.Buttheyaresocialfactors.However,oursexeducationcomestoolate,whichtakeanotherresponsibilityforthepresentsituation.(Thetenth)Let’shavealookatacomparisonbetweenwesterncountriesandChinaonthesexeducation.First,theideaofsex,westerncultureseessexasanaturalofphysicalandpsychologicalphenomenon,whichisthemostpreciousgiftthatgodpresentshumans.So,Europe,Americaandsomecountrieswheresexconceptionismoreopen,makesexeducationpartofthecurriculumofelementaryandjuniorschools.ButinChinesetraditionalideologyandculture,sexistheuglythingsandsecretsaboutitistoomuch.(Theeleventh)Second,thecontentofsexeducation,themaincontentofsexeducationinthewestisthehumanreproductivesystemabouttheorganization,function,andsexualintercourse,pregnantandsoon.China"straditionaleducationmainlyhelpschildrenformgenderconsciousness.Whenachildisborn,boysandgirlswererespectivelytaughtaccordingtothesocietyofmenandwomenandthedifferentrequirementsofeducation.(Thetwelfth)Third,theageofbeginningeducatees,somesexeducatorsholdtheviewthatsexeducationshouldbeginfromkids.Andsomecountrieshavedonethis.However,sexeducationinChinaisquiteunsuccessful,whichusuallystartsfromjuniorschool.Childrenhardlycontacttheknowledgeaboutsexduringelementaryschool.(Thethirteenth)Forth,themainbodyofimplementation,westernsexeducationismainlydonebyparentsaccompaniedbyschools.Teachersarerequiredtobeprofessionallytrained.Andparentsaredemandedtobecultivatedsothatschoolandfamilyeducationcanbeefficientlycombinedandworkout.InChina,familyeducationispoor,andschoolsfocusonthebodystructureofmenorwomen.Theyseldomdiscusssexuallifeorguidethestudentsintoarightoutlookonsexuallife.(Thefourteenth)Ok,comparisonsarequitealot,throughthecomparisonsabove,wecanfindoutthatoursexeducationisverybackwardinmanyways.(Thefifteenth)Duetothepooreducation,negativesidesturnupvehemently.Problemsaremisunderstandingofsexandexcessivesuppressionofsexualdriveandexcessiveindulginginsexuallife. (Thesixteenth)Whatisourunderstandingofsex?First,whatisourunderstandingofsexrelations?Maybewehavedifferentanswers.Butthismangiveshisideatous.Hisnameis李扁,afamousexpertinthefieldofsexstudy.Heisthefirstmantoputforwardtheconcept“Sexwell-off”.Andheexpresseshiscomprehensionaboutsexualrelations.(Theseventeenth)Hethinksthatthenatureofsexisneitheraboutsexualorgannoraboutsexualbehavior,itisaboutrelations.Ifwejustcareaboutsexualorganandbehavior,weareincommonwithanimals.Wemustformrelationsbetweeneachother.Thatislove.Loveisbasisoftruesexwhichisdifferentfromanimals’low-gradebehavior.Ifwehavesexualdriveonnobasis,wearejustreturningtoourprimitivenatureasanimals.Butnow,someofusjustthinkthatsexisonlyaboutsexualorganandbehavior.(Theeighteenth)Then,whatisthedifferencebetweensexanderoticism?1:Sexisbasedoncertainrelations.Itincludesart,ethnic(伦理学),praxiology(行为学)andsoon.Itishigh-gradehumanactivities.2:Eroticismisbasedonhumans’primitivenature.Itbelongstolow-gradehumanactivities.Inourlife,weoftenwrongtakesexaseroticism,andavoidit,forbidit.Inmyopinion,Thisiswhysomeexcellentfilmslike《色戒》、《苹果》,arecutout,andwhysomemoviesareforbidden.(Thenineteenth)Well,excessivesuppressionofsexualdriveandexcessiveindulginginsexuallifeistheotherproblem.AccordingtoLiBian’stheory,sexualdriveisanimpulsethatyouhavetoenjoythecourseandtherelationsbetweentwowhenmakinglove.Sexuallifeisakindoflifemadeupofsexrelations.(Thetwentieth)Recently,acontroversial(备受争议的)moviehasbeenoninBritain.Ittellsastoryaboutamanwhosometimessuppresseshissexualdriveandsometimesexcessivelyindulgeshimselfinsexuallife.(Thetwenty-fist)Heoftenchangeshissexpartnerandheconstantlymeetshisdemandsbymasturbation.Infacthesuffersfromapsychologicalillnesscalled“SexAddiction”.Thisistheresultoftheproblemmentionedabove.(Excessive···)(Thetwenty-second)So,asundergraduates,whatattitudeshouldwehavetowardsex? (Thetwenty-third)Asforthematterofsexbeforemarriage,Ithinkthatweshouldn’tandcan’tavoidit.Wefirstofallshouldknowwhatoursexisbasedon.Dowereallyloveeachotherorjustwehavestronginterestinsexualbehaviorandorgan?Ifyouonlywanttoperformeroticism,Isuggestthatyou’dbettergiveupyouridea,becauseyouaredoingsomethingirresponsibleforthegirl.Don’tbeamanjustunderstandingsexualorganandbehavior.However,ifyoureallyloveherandareloyaltoher,sexmaystrengthenyourlovebyformingasexrelations,then,Idon’titisimpropertopursuesex.Butforgirls,Ithink,youmustbecarefulwithsexbecauseitisdifficultforyoutorecognizewhetheryourpresentboyfriendwillfinallymarryyouandgiveyouhappinessorfelicity,thatis,don’tbetakenin.(Thetwenty-fourth)Then,ifyouareabachelordom,especiallymales,learntofreeandcontrolyoursexualdrive,becauseexcessivesuppressionofsexualdriveandexcessiveindulginginsexuallifearebothharmfultoyourhealth.Freeingyoursexualdrivemeansyoutakemeasurestomeetyoursexualdemands,includingmasturbation,watchingavandgoingtotheEros-center(wesayRedLightDistrict).Ofcourse,thelastwayisnotagoodway,alittledangerous,becauseyoumaybeinfectedwithAids.Sobecarefulwithitandwehadbetternotdothat.Controllingyoursexualdrivemeansyoushouldn’tbeaddictedtosex,becauseitwilltakeupyourtoomuchtimeandenergyinyourdailylifeandleaveyourlifechaotic.(Thetwenty-fifth)Ithinkwejustansweredtheonequestion“Whatissex?”andsolvedoneproblem“Howtodealwithoursex”.Intheend,Iadvocatethatwewalkintosexandlearnaboutitandtalkaboutitinthepublic.Don’tmakeitaforbiddentopic.(Thelast)Thanksforlistening.